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Make a commitment to your day and stick to it. Get ready for this day by preparing your environment...
List every potential situation you can think of that could lead you down the meth path again. Situations could include being with friends who use lots of meth; going to a party; being offered meth; feeling tired, bored, or angry; feeling happy; wanting to celebrate; wanting to reward yourself; having lots of money; having no money; having a craving; putting on weight etc. Make a coping plan for each risky situation.
SI'll pay off my credit card in 12 monthsI want to get some money together" isn't specific enough.
Measurable: Seeing your credit card balance decrease each month will help to keep you motivated, so make sure you set a goal that allows you to measure your progress.
Active: The best goals are those in which you play the active part. Getting someone else to do what you want them to do is often not an achievable or realistic goal. An active goal in this case involves your response. For example "For the next two weeks, whenever my partner gets angry I'll stay calm/leave the room/do something else, rather than get angry too and have an argument."
Realistic: Some of the best goals are personally challenging, but make sure that your goal is attainable and that you have the ability to achieve it, or can learn the skills you need to make it happen.
Time limited: It's important to have a time frame for your goal so you can keep an eye on your progress and know when you've achieved it. It's hard to stay motivated when the end is nowhere in sight.
Try this practical method for dealing with problems and avoid putting them off. You'll find that just making a start will help to relieve your stress.
1) Stop and think about the whole situation. What's really going on? What's the real issue? Be clear about what the actual problem is.
2) Break the problem down into smaller, manageable parts and solve each part separately.
3) Be creative and generate a list of possible solutions. Come up with as many options as possible to solve the problem without judging the merits of any option yet.
4) Choose an option by considering each one separately and weighing up the pros and cons. Reject unusable options, choose the best one, and keep the second best as a back-up plan if you need it.
5) Practice. Try out your solution and evaluate the plan. Did it work? If not, why not? How could you tackle this problem differently in future?